“You don’t sew with a fork, so I see no reason to eat with knitting needles.” — Miss Piggy, on eating Chinese Food

I took the courage of taking a test about my personality not because we are required by our instructor but also it would help me to assess myself even though I am the bearer of my personality, I need to assess it once in a while because as time goes by our personality may change without even noticing it.

Upon reading my classmates’ blog they shared the link on where they took their personality test and I took mine also in that link.  I took Carl Jung’s Humanmetrics Typology Test and after answering all the 72 questions provided it resulted that I am an ESFJ type of person. What does it mean?

ESFJ stands for Extavert Sensing Feeling Judging. The results show that I am the following:

  • You have distinctive preference of Extraversion over Introversion (67%)
  • You have slight preference of Sensing over Intuition (12%)
  • You have moderate preference of Feeling over Thinking (25%)
  • You have slight preference of Judging over Perceiving (11%)

Upon knowing the results of my test, I made a researched about an ESFJ type of person for me understand what it really means.

Portrait of an ESFJ – Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judging
(Extraverted Feeling with Introverted Sensing)

The Caregiver

As an ESFJ, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion.

ESFJs are people persons – they love people. They are warmly interested in others. They use their Sensing and Judging characteristics to gather specific, detailed information about others, and turn this information into supportive judgments. They want to like people, and have a special skill at bringing out the best in others. They are extremely good at reading others, and understanding their point of view. The ESFJ’s strong desire to be liked and for everything to be pleasant makes them highly supportive of others. People like to be around ESFJs, because the ESFJ has a special gift of invariably making people feel good about themselves.

The ESFJ takes their responsibilities very seriously, and is very dependable. They value security and stability, and have a strong focus on the details of life. They see before others do what needs to be done, and do whatever it takes to make sure that it gets done. They enjoy these types of tasks, and are extremely good at them.

ESFJs are warm and energetic. They need approval from others to feel good about themselves. They are hurt by indifference and don’t understand unkindness. They are very giving people, who get a lot of their personal satisfaction from the happiness of others. They want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give. They’re very sensitive to others, and freely give practical care. ESFJs are such caring individuals, that they sometimes have a hard time seeing or accepting a difficult truth about someone they care about.

With Extraverted Feeling dominating their personality, ESFJs are focused on reading other people. They have a strong need to be liked, and to be in control. They are extremely good at reading others, and often change their own manner to be more pleasing to whoever they’re with at the moment.

The ESFJ’s value system is defined externally. They usually have very well-formed ideas about the way things should be, and are not shy about expressing these opinions. However, they weigh their values and morals against the world around them, rather than against an internal value system. They may have a strong moral code, but it is defined by the community that they live in, rather than by any strongly felt internal values.

ESFJs who have had the benefit of being raised and surrounded by a strong value system that is ethical and centered around genuine goodness will most likely be the kindest, most generous souls who will gladly give you the shirt off of their back without a second thought. For these individuals, the selfless quality of their personality type is genuine and pure. ESFJs who have not had the advantage of developing their own values by weighing them against a good external value system may develop very questionable values. In such cases, the ESFJ most often genuinely believes in the integrity of their skewed value system. They have no internal understanding of values to set them straight. In weighing their values against our society, they find plenty of support for whatever moral transgression they wish to justify. This type of ESFJ is a dangerous person indeed. Extraverted Feeling drives them to control and manipulate, and their lack of Intuition prevents them from seeing the big picture. They’re usually quite popular and good with people, and good at manipulating them. Unlike their ENFJ cousin, they don’t have Intuition to help them understand the real consequences of their actions. They are driven to manipulate other to achieve their own ends, yet they believe that they are following a solid moral code of conduct.

All ESFJs have a natural tendency to want to control their environment. Their dominant function demands structure and organization, and seeks closure. ESFJs are most comfortable with structured environments. They’re not likely to enjoy having to do things which involve abstract, theoretical concepts, or impersonal analysis. They do enjoy creating order and structure, and are very good at tasks which require these kinds of skills. ESFJs should be careful about controlling people in their lives who do not wish to be controlled.

ESFJs respect and believe in the laws and rules of authority, and believe that others should do so as well. They’re traditional, and prefer to do things in the established way, rather than venturing into unchartered territory. Their need for security drives their ready acceptance and adherence to the policies of the established system. This tendency may cause them to sometimes blindly accept rules without questioning or understanding them.

An ESFJ who has developed in a less than ideal way may be prone to being quite insecure, and focus all of their attention on pleasing others. He or she might also be very controlling, or overly sensitive, imagining bad intentions when there weren’t any.

ESFJs incorporate many of the traits that are associated with women in our society. However, male ESFJs will usually not appear feminine at all. On the contrary, ESFJs are typically quite conscious about gender roles and will be most comfortable playing a role that suits their gender in our society. Male ESFJs will be quite masculine (albeit sensitive when you get to know them), and female ESFJs will be very feminine.

ESFJs at their best are warm, sympathetic, helpful, cooperative, tactful, down-to-earth, practical, thorough, consistent, organized, enthusiastic, and energetic.They enjoy tradition and security, and will seek stable lives that are rich in contact with friends and family.

(Source: http://www.personalitypage.com/ESFJ.html)

Based on my research, I don’t find it wrong or right because this test is just a guide that I am more likely to be this kind of person. I agree that I am most likely a ESFJ based on the results and on my assessment towards myself.

On the description, I agree that I really love people. I like to be with people because I don’t want to be alone because it makes me sad. I am a friendly type of person; I don’t find it hard to reach out to other people even though it would be the first time to meet them. I love to be with my friends because I find comfort and happiness when I’m with their company.

I’m the type of person that would prefer to embrace responsibility than rely unto others because I wanted to make things done as soon as possible. In every group activity, I want to be the leader than just a mere member of the group because I want to take actions responsibly. I am the type of person who is satisfied on just waiting for the leader’s orders because I wanted to give orders and so as working on my responsibility, I wanted to be hands-on in every task that I am in responsibility.

I care a lot especially to people close to my heart and they are my family and friends. I would not hesitate to give my love and care for them it would make them happy. I care for the happiness of others than to my own because for me seeing them happy is a fulfillment and in return I feel happiness in my heart. But I am a person who wanted to be appreciated in all the things I do, I don’t expect for any material things in return because I wanted is a little appreciation form others especially to those who I had given a favor.

On the other hand, I found out and realized that sometimes I tend to control the people around me because of the fact that I wanted to give orders. I forgot that they also have their own minds that are working and sometimes they know what to do without my orders but sometimes I don’t want slow moving persons because “Time is gold”. I realized that sometimes I need to control this kind of attitude because some people may misinterpret me especially to those people who don’t want to be controlled.

To sum it up, I don’t find this personality test wrong or right on judging my personality but almost all the descriptions stated above are most likely accurate on what composes me as human being. I love the way I am and I will not change it because of reasons that I need to please others but I will just improve my personality for me to become a better person and experiences would make me stronger and would help me on how to be a better person in which I wanted to be.




4 responses »

  1. Yes, Its better not changing your personality to please other people. Because after all you are the one who will control your own life not them. So don’t even make changes of who you are . you are what you are.

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